Friday, January 06, 2006

Forget about seeing NYE pics anytime soon cos its been tough uploading it on laggy software and Sherry's been a lil busy lately. sigh.

So just a few quick hits before I hit the cleaning supplies. (mom's a-nagging to do the bloody chores.)

Today has been awfully weird, in a majorly sucky way. I got told off by some know-it-all Auntie at a nearby coffeeshop cos apparently, I *disgraced my family's honor* by playing with my boyfriend. Ok, so maybe it was more on the aggressive side since i was pretty much widening the holes on his already weathered shirt. :P

But how that applies to DISHONOURMENT is waaaay beyond me. Geesh, given that we are still in a chinese-culture/thinking orientated society, though its the 21st century. You may argue that we're being to influenced by the West, but I beg to differ. Mindsets and ideas change with every given generation, and we can't all be sticks-in-the-muds. So WTH was wrong with giggling and harmless fooling around with a loved one?
I'm pretty discerning, and I know this was my fault to an extent. But the way she said it jus pissed the shit outta me.

The last time I checked; I wasn't a sleazy figure who slept around and deserved all condemnation offered. I wasn't some loose homicidal nutcase who killed children in their sleep. So who the hell gave her the right to pass judgement and and speak to me in some condescending tone, complete with a sneering look.

Pig. Since calling her a bitch would actually mean she has smarts.

AND, not being vindictive or anything..but she was a walking fashion disaster. A fluffy pink sweater, rainbow rubber scrunchie and too-tight jeans with sandals. I never expected a colour-challenged Xu ChunMei clone to lecture me on propriety. Woah. Havoc sia.
~~~
Coincidentally, I met an old pri classmate of mine, Eekawat. Boy has he cleaned up since out schooling years. Great catching up with the old times when he told me about a fellow pri schmate, and I was blooooowwwnn away.

At the ripe old age of 18, she is currently married and has 1 child to her name. Good lord. I'm not judging her predicament, jus really shocked. Cos we used to be hi-bye frens, and she really didn't strike me as the sorta person to get into this sorta stuff. She was meek somewhat, and used to have a crush on Eekawat here. But....

Looks like time has eluded us when we weren't looking. And look where we are now.

Now, is that a good or bad thing?

Who needs love?